Please refer to (cult deprogrammer/exit counselor) Mary Alice Chrnalogar's book "Twisted Scriptures" and the following pages for misuse of Scriptures:
1) Page 214-2Thess.3-misinterpretation of "disorderly", "busybodies", "shunning", "shaming".
2) Page 214-1Thess.5:22-misinterpretation of "avoiding evil" to include "uncommitted believers", etc.
3) Page 217-Luke 14:26-misinterpretation of "hating" family members.
4) Page 218-Luke 9:60 and Matt 8:22-misinterpretation of "burying the dead".
5) Page 218-2John 9&10-misinterpretation of "refusing to welcome".
6) Page 219-Matt 18:15-17-misuse of "confronting sin".